Yes, your both right, yes Perna, I hear you. But what I am saying is that it isn't that easy. Yes madisgram, your right, you are doing a good job at preparing other family members for what could happen if they don't learn how it could happen and that they may end up on the wrong road.

And Perna, well, yes, it is another persons problem but it does effect us and many times because we don't understand it we somehow let it happen or even find an excuse for it. And yes, there are many different situations where this can happen.

The very fact that I have pointed it out in different areas in my life, is proof that, yes, it can happen in different people and one can find themselves ending up with a lot of them around them.

I am doing everything I can to not be a co-dependant which often happens with family members. Even the fact that you can make a choice to ignore it, can in some way be a form of co-dependancy. I don't care how many different ways you spin the bottle, it is still a bottle.

I have just tried to realize yeah, it is a bottle and there are a lot of bottles and there are different charectoristics that show, yes, it is in fact a bottle.

I am just trying to point out that no matter how much we spin it, well,
it is what it is. And, for me, well, there is nothing about it that is easy.

Open Eyes