I have been with my boyfriend for three years. About 8 months ago i noticed some changed in him. He had always been a little overly paranoid but nothing like what we are living with now, it all started about 9 months ago.. He thinks our house is bugged and that we are being recorded and than at work everyday his coworkers are rehashing everything we have said back to him. He thinks all our family and friends are plotting against him because they do not want me to be with him. Which is not true, i try to tell him these things are not true. I have been doing some research and I feel he has paranoid personality disorder. This stuff is literally killing me but I do not want to loose the love of my life. Im depressed and all my happiness is sucked dry. I do not know what to do? When i tell him he needs help and that I am willing to go with him he laughs and tells me " you will see the truth sooner or later", he tells me that I dont get whats going on. Im lost.

He thinks there is a website of him up out there that is secret and that everyone knows about it but him. I am lost and dead inside, I try to tell him to get help and he wont listen to me, but I love him. HELP.