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May 10, 2011, 04:29 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
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I would tell her that she's going to have to learn to be oblivious to other peoples' stares, ogling, looking and just go on with her business. There isn't much else she can do.  There are always going to be ignorant people who stare, and those idiots who get so close so that they can brush up against her ~ she will have to try to avoid those situations the best she can.
I've been made to feel "dirty" in my younger years as I had a good figure, and men seemed to love my legs.  I HATED being ogled but I learned to just ignore them and go on about my business. I stopped feeling "dirty" as I realized that only *I* can make myself feel these things -- no one else can. Regardless of what they do, only *I* can make myself feel good, bad, dirty, etc. Once I realized that, I stopped making myself feel so horrible - afterall, I didn't DO anything.
She's been "cursed" with good looks ~ we should ALL be so cursed. LOL But it can be a hassle. In later years, she'll learn that it's an asset.  God bless. Hugs, Lee
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