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Old May 10, 2011, 04:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Don't touch me View Post
I guess so... I just don't get why I do this stuff. I hate it. It's like there's something forcing me to always be unhappy.
Yes, there are many people like you that have trouble with this. You have been abused and you are punishing yourself for SOMETHING SOMEONE ELSE DID. What you are doing is a normal response to abuse in many cases.

So, you have to go to a therapist as Leed suggests and find ways to empower yourself and allow yourself to love yourself. It takes time, it doesnt happen overnight and that is why a regular visit with a good therapist can help you.

Open Eyes
Thanks for this!
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