Just talked to my sister-in-law earlier today. She said that my brother-in-law is nice, but he is really controlling (nice validation here). She said to call her anytime but to use my cell or if I write her, use my computer because he listens in on his phone line and monitors the activity on his internet account. That's pretty bad. At least I know it's not just me being paranoid. As long as he is nice to my sister, that is okay with me... I will try and hold back my honest but sarcastic remarks from now on.