There is no such thing as a silly question, if it is honest.

I am a possible Aspie, and I have a very vividly detailed memory. People in my family tend to call me if they are trying to remember the name of the cat who belonged to our neighbor across the street in 1978.

The trouble is, the hurt from abusive situations lingers on, because my memory still feels so current. Sometimes I have to stop and calculate how long ago something actually happened.