I moved away for a summer job last year and didn't know anyone in town. I have social phobia, too.

I forced myself to go to concerts, festivals, and parks by myself. It was hard. But it was worth it. Now I have all of these great memories. I barely remember the anxiety.

I met a few really nice people. People on their own are less threatening to talk to, so strangers were more likely to start a conversation. This is especially true for girls. Just watch out for the flirts!

Sometimes I couldn't make myself talk to anyone, but I still enjoyed going. Concerts are easier because you have something to look at.

I'm sorry if you end up feeling panic sometimes. You're not alone in dealing with that problem. You're very brave to consider going out alone anyway!