I don't know how to define me, I think there is some dismissing, some avoidant, some preoccupied/anxious........I think I fall into the unresolved sort of category! No wonder my emotional regulation is helter-skelter, at times I can, many times I cannot regulate it properly. Lack of secure attachments......because I am not sure my attachment with my H is so secure right now, and I am not sure how to define my attachment to T, though I think it is still somewhat insecure! Hence my attachment to order in my living space, because that is something I can more easily regulate than my emotions or my attachments to others........
Interesting for me to ponder, even though I have a headache at the moment limiting my cognitive function a bit.....