Oh it's nonsense I guess, I thought of trump and other pompous busienss men when I thought of the idea of "Bringing things to the table." Like the idea that a relationship is a monetary engageent contract and my female body exists to look pefect, flatter, please and make jelaous other men. That perhaps in this economic world my life is valued at less because I care about arts and philosophy, whreas my T seems very interesting in worldly things like "nice homes" and "nice boats." and.... and maybe even sees being atttractive and well connected a short ticket to gething thse things.
I just wanted to open up a dialogue she sort of discmissively was just like, "yeah.... can't disagree wit you... you fail on a number of these counts for issues comging from your uprbiringing....

Can I ever trust a T again if most of them are so annoying sexist, old school, and shallow?