Honestly sunshine...I think as long as you have good support around you, and you are on the right meds, you can do anything!!! I am 42 and have just been diagnosed last fall, but have been bipolar for many years (undx) I returned to school at 30 and got my degree and have been through a few positions at work to find the right fit for me, but I am in a great one now and have learned through all of my experiences. Also, I'm a mother of 3 and although at this time I have just decided to take some time off work, bc my meds aren't optimal, I know I will be back and functioning well soon. You have to live your life, your pdoc and parents are just concerned. Please keep an open communication with them and all of your friends that know..ok??