Thank you all for the support and advice and care. Things are finally changing for the better. We've started couples therapy after a long talk and he realized what he was doing and admitted to needing help. We've only been to one session so far but it was a major help. He hasn't even raised his voice to me in a week. That doesn't seem like much but it means the world to me. We have another therapy session next week and I hope the more we go, the more he sees his faults as I will be seeing mine and we can work through all our issues and come together and work things out. He's had a really tough childhood and a rough start to adulthood, as have I. Maybe through therapy together we can resolve these issues and heal together.