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The Pain Stops: when you stop looking at the person you love as the person you love, and you begin to see them, not as a partner, a lover, or a best friend, but as a human being with the strengths and weaknesses and even the core of a child.

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This one might be the hardest to do. Even under the best of circumstances, it's hard to look at people you're close to and see who is really there.