Thanks for the advice, it definitely sounds like something that might work. My girlfriend is the type that she would be willing to tell me outright if it was something I was doing (at least I think so). The only problem is I'm not sure when I'll get to bring it up. She has been in a mood lately where she doesn't really want to talk about what's going on because she doesn't want us to dwell on it. Maybe I'll give her a few days then mention it and see what she says. It's hard because I want to talk about it but I agree with her that we shouldn't dwell on it.

Do you know of any online support groups? I think a lot of my problem is I don't have anyone to talk to about what's been going on.

Thanks again for the advice!