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Originally Posted by jadedmoonbeam
I agree with Can'tStopCrying - and maybe if you have a friend or a female that you trust, you could ask them what doctor they see to get a referral that way to someone.
Do not think being a virgin is weird. you need to wait till you are ready and comfortable, and it makes it even more understandable why the gyno would be troublesome for you - when you see a doctor, they are actually working for you, even though it doesn't feel like it a lot of the time, but You are Paying them. If you don't like them, leave and find someone else.
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I am just starting to get to know the women in the meditation group I attend on tuesday evenings. So hopefully as I reach out more to the ones that I feel comfortable trusting, I can get some great referrals.
I agree, it is very important to pace myself and ask myself if I am comfortable, willing and ready to have sex with a boyfriend. I should not have to feel like I have to stay just because a doctor is in a position of authority. I pay my money, but if they don't treat me right, I leave.
Thank you for your empathic words of encouragement, jadedmoonbeam.