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Old May 12, 2011, 03:32 PM
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Hi ~ Personally, I think you should count your blessings that she made this ultimatum BEFORE you got engaged, and RUN LIKE HECK and get away from this chick. She is trouble with a capital T. You can BET that she will give you further ultimatums after marriage -- this is her M.O. It's good that you saw it now. She is a demanding, selfish girl ~ you'd be in misery after awhile with this one. PLEASE don't get into a marriage with her --- you will end up with another failed one if you do.

You deserve better than this. How DARE she force you to make a decision like this!!! She'd better be prepared for the results!

I hope you tell her goodbye. You can do SO MUCH better than her. Most women do NOT give ultimatums -- they are grateful for their men. God bless and best of luck. Hugs, Lee
Thanks for this!
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