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Originally Posted by zooropa
T didn't say "you are too borderline" she just said I have too many needs, need too much reassurance, draw close to her and then push her away too much, ask her to repeat things I "should" know by now...all kinds of things that are to my mind sort of classic bpd behavior. If my T can't take it, I am well and truly screwed.
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Hey Zoo,
I know your angry right now and really upset after all that has happened and I think it's understandable!
She honestly doesn't have to tell you she won't quit on you or won't fire you hun, a therapist wouldn't be liable for ending therapy, esp not if they refered the client on or brough the therapy to an end because they did not believe it was helping the client.
The part of your message I have quoted here: Weren't these the things she said whilst the rupture was happening? She hasn't said them since though has she? It sounds like all those words that she said, which really hurt (understandably) are still going aroundin your head and getting you down?
Its really difficult when we want to be accepted completely by T and then these BPD behaviours get in the way and although they are somewhat natural reactions for us, to T and other non borderlines, they are hard to understand.
how has contact been between sessions since the rupture?
xxxx
