
May 13, 2011, 05:53 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I'm so sorry this happened. I'm sure it's very painful for you. You'll have to grieve this relationship, much like a death. It will take awhile to get over this.
What concerns me is the fact that you say Kristy is still your best friend ~ so you have to see this every day. How do you expect to recover from this if you must put yourself in that environment every day?? It's going to be impossible to heal, with having to continually see the two of them together.
It would be much healthier for you if you would step back, and take a "vacation" from this "friendship" for a good while. You need some time away from this in order to completely heal. In fact, this "friendship" might always be painful for you ~ but at least for now, you should take a vacation from it. Give yourself some grieving time.
God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee
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