First of all.......my 'transference' with my therapist is something I have struggled with for over a year. It was not something I was proud of, it hurts, it's confusing, it's opened up another side of me that was not there before, and in the end it HELPED me.

Being able to open up to someone and tell them my most personal issues towards him TREMENDOUSLY HELPED THERAPY. It let me realize where things were coming from inside and in relationships in my life.

As truly upset as your 'original' post made me (as it seemed to judge those who come here to share their experiences in hope of help and understanding) it is obvious it hurt a lot of people. I pray for you and i hope you have a great day.