I do love her and did not want to end our relationship. I reassured her all the time that I loved her and wanted us to grow together. However, previous ultimatums would give us setbacks in moving forward. I started to believe that she was more in love with being married than loving me. I can almost guarantee that from the start of us dating, had she let us grow together naturally without any of the previous ultimatums, I would be proactive in planning a future with her. The previous ultimatums have lent concern on my part that she would be giving other ultimatums after we got married.