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Originally Posted by zooropa
it is probably a bpd thing. I have actually stayed away from identifying too
Closely with any one dx, particularly bpd, because I have more than one dx and because of the sigma against bpd. So I'm not incredibly well versed in all aspects of bpd. I have been reading more lately, though, and when I see so much of myself in what I read, it makes me wonder why my t seems so frustrated and exasperated with me when she has chosen to specialize in bpd.
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Hey hun, I feel I started you thinking more about bpd when I asked you if you had it as I seen some of the traits in you that i see in myself
....im sorry. Try not to focus so much on the BPD, it can help explain some things but in some ways it's not good to focus on it because then it makes you feel like you cant change things which is wrong..you can, it can happen
I think it's understandable that it may take a good while for your relationship with T to heal after all the water that has gone under the bridge. Can you tell your T how you feel about the Rupture affecting things for you now? It's not really a bpd thing at all this, its just kind of what happens when we have had a bit of a falling out with someone- it's hard to get over and forget the bad things sometimes but it will happen if you give it a chance hun.
I think you need to talk to her about it in the next session