I understand what it feels like when T doesn't focus enough attention on something that we feel needs to be looked at. After in therapy with the same T for 14 months, I have just got up the nerve recently to start expressing when I want to focus on something that she sort of "Dismisses". I felt like a weight was lifted when she appreciated the feedback I gave her. I know its hard to do, but try to keep in mind that talk therapy is supposed to be "client controlled" and you have every right to express you're need to look at certain things. I wish you luck in you're next visit. Thinkin of ya!