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Originally Posted by zooropa
I find that any encouraging or supportive things my T has said since the rupture just won't stick with me. What sticks are the things she said that were hurtful or invalidating.  |
Those things that were learned in childhood still have a powerful pull, so you keep falling back into them even now. Writing over those old brain paths with new learning takes a long time! Wish it weren't so.
