Thank you very much, especially for the links! I will be sure to check out those sites. Specific chronic pain therapy sounds like it may hold some potential.

No unfortunately there was one guy before my husband. I told him about the pain repeatedly, but he always dismissed it, saying that with girls it's just like that. I discovered later that at the time I was also having reactions to the latex in the condoms, so that wasn't helping! But I've had tons of therapy over that guy already, so hopefully I'm good there. :crosses fingers:

Thanks for your time and caring- God bless you!