You are lucky. But you did forget that you owe it also for yourself for seeing that you had a problem, coming here and to a T and talking about it and working on resolving it. I think for a man, that can be hard to do, stop and see a problem and be willing to admit it and even show emotion about it.

You are a much better man today, than you were when you first came.
I am sure that as you become stronger Lava, your family will greatly benefit. I have seen how that happens. My daughter is a much stonger person from watching me NOT allow for bad behaviors in others. And they have seen you have courage, they DO learn from that.

Open Eyes