If you can work on yourself and learn to love yourself, well, others will respond to that. Sometimes others are put off when they see someone who is having a hard time emotionally as they often don't know what to do or say. It really isn't you, or that something cant get better or change. You have to work on YOU.
Open Eyes

[/QUOTE]
I am in therapy and i have been working on myself .......am working on alot of deep embedded hurt that is what is causing all of this...i'm not here to make people happy, i'm here for support, if people are turned off by that, which seems to me you think they are, then i will move on, best wishes