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Have you tried explaining what you did ? Did you tell her that obviously your method was a mistake, and you're sorry that you hurt her? If you've owned up to everything that happened, I don't know what else to tell you. Perhaps if you keep going to counseling, she'll change her mind.
There is never an excuse for meaness or cruelty. I don't care what your reason for it is ~ it's just not good enough. You really owe her a big apology. If you KNEW she was depressed, the last thing she needed was someone being mean to her. That could have pushed her to the edge of no return -- you're lucky she didn't do something desperate!!
All you can do now is hope she accepts your apology. If she doesn't, I guess you've learned a valuable lesson. I wish you the best of luck. God bless and take care. Peace, Lee
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