i was told by my T, "if it doesn't manifest itself, we are going to leave it alone."
as for being honest with ourselves i feel we all have a slant on what we perceive. i do the best i can with my honesty about self. i do it in therapy too. otherwise how can the therapist really know who/what i am? but some things i may not even be aware of. i don't feel i'm being dishonest when that occurs. i just don't know about it.
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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