i'm in agreement with lee. she might not get better but YOU can by going to al-anon. alcoholics in denial cannot be forced to look at their conduct even when a child is involved. i'm so sorry you have this concern, and it is a real concern, but it's in her hands. i just hope she hits a bottom whereby no one is killed, etc.it's a sad situ to watch a loved one self destruct. 
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