i guess it is about relationships,a person at my work who i have always have looked up to as one of my superiors did what i see as some strange stuff.i think she is wanting to be friends(God that sounds so child like).anyway she has always bee very nice and helpful to me.she is one of the few people i am willing to talk to at work.she is always coming to my department to help,asks how i am doing and is always checking up on me etc...i always thought it was just because she was the one who brought me to the hosp when i had a major panic attack and couldn't breathe etc...,today i went into her office to show her something i thought she might be interested in.suddenly she said "granite i have some more questions to ask you"she got up and closed the door(FREAKED ME)she than started to just talk about stuff about another girl employee and a guy etc..just gosip...like she was just a good friend of mine.i didn't know how to deal.I'm so pathetic...i was so shy and speechless even when people i like are trying to get to know me more i am so stupidly scared and suspicious.
just wondering if others feel this way about befriending people and do they talk to there T's about it and do they help with teaching one how to sustain a friendship that i feel is way out of my league.i do feel a friendship with this person is way beyond me.she is the employee rep in charge of dealing with employee problems and hiring etc..kind of like human resources etc...she did give me a promotion .but i am afraid to be her friend.what if she finds out I'm just a jerk maybe it could end up interfering with my job.are these kind of relationship problems things you all talk about with T'S