I have discovered a lot of Ts who have books on their shelves that they have not read. I hope it is because they get them with the hopes of reading them but then never get around to it.
My friend was not particularly helpful. He was too distracted teasing the kid he was babysitting. He said to give the little one back the stuffy that the old T gave the her. I am not so sure that is a smart move though. She never got closure with old T and bringing back the stuffy is going to stir up a lot of emotions. I have tried to go to just about every store in our area so she could pick out a blankie or a stuffy but nothing seems to catch her attention. He also suggested letting the little one send old T a message on facebook... dunno that just strikes me as a REALLY bad idea. He said it is old Ts fault for having a facebook page and she should expect stuff like this to happen.
Dunno. would just like to have something comforting for massage T to give the little one before she runs back in and hides. Something that when the little one is home and thinking about massage T she can hold close.
So confused right now with a lot of switching... getting a headache from all the switching. Everyone inside feels really bad for the little one. She was the one part that, as far as we knew, never experienced abuse. We thought she was "untouched" by all the trauma... just to find out that the T that was supposed to help her hurt her.