Thank You guys. More input is always appreciated. I just posted on the thread for books for therapy.

I am right this moment reading Heart to Heart Talk A Clients Guide to Transformation in Psychotherapy by Julia M. Landis.

This book is very helpful in understanding transference, the therapeudic relationship, what is ok to say in therapy. It also has assignments for you to complete to help you evaluate your current therapeudic relationship. I am only on chapter 4 and I am having some ah ha moments and sighs of relief, knowing that I am doing therapy right. LOL