Can you go to a woman's shelter? They could help you find a place to live. Do you have a job? I heard an expert say once - we often find partners that have similar undesirable qualities as one of our parents - you were abandoned by your parents and your partner has the same qualities. he also knows what you fear most and is using this to his advantage. It's better for you to get out and start over with the help from social services. I'm sorry this is happening.