Just to counterpoint Darkeyes post: I went to the quizzes section on this site and did every one of those quizzes. I came up with being likely to have everyone of those disorders except ADHD. Before you think that I am a wack job I really do not have all those disorders. My disorder symptoms just overlap all the others. So my point is that it would be a good idea to get her into see a qualified perfessional. Even if she deffinately has this disorder she should get some help in learning to overcome it and lead a normal life. Also it is helpful if you and her go in for some couples therapy. When I was diagnosed my therapist kept insisting that my husband and I go in together to one of his co-workers. It was incredibly helpful to my husband because he was able to gain some understanding of what I was going through and how he could help me and care for himself while our lives were in turmoil. I am so glad he didn't just dump me when he was at a total loss for what to do. He was in a lot of pain and I could understand him leaving me. His support has been one of the reasons I have improved as much as I have. Take care,
Zen

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