i have been thinking why is your T rescuing you from whatever pain,behavior,horrible thoughts,so taboo.how can it be so harmful

sometimes i think this is what i want from my T a lot.to tell me how to talk and give me words,a clue in how to use T to help me,to trust her,to feel OK about things.how can this be wrong. just wondering.i know it is and all but why???

if my T knows what will help,what i can say,what i need to work on why not tell me.