I know how this is.

I KNOW that there are those who know, who even say, "why no, it's only that ..." and then they stop. It makes me scream.
But Granite....
allowing for the fact that everyanalogy has its limitations, imagine a mother who is trying to get her little one to walk. She will encourage, she will correct posture, she will support and help, but in the end, it's the child who has to put one foot in front of the other. No one is going to walk for him.
still...therapy... it's a **** of a system, if you ask me.