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If the therapist started rescuing clients this would unbalance her. A therapist can't want something for the client more then a client does because this would be crossing a boundary. If the therapist was doing the work for all 20 or 30 of her clients she would go crazy. That boundary is healthy for all involved.
And granite, you doing the work is what is going to heal you.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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