Im 37 and have been married for two years. She is truly a tremendous woman, but I have never had those romantic type feelings for her. Intimacy with her has always been a struggle but I just deal with it. I know I know "then why did you marry her dummy" The fact is she had become kind of my best friend and I was confused on what to do. She would always bring up the topic of marriage, and if I didnt have an answer, she would get depressed and not talk to me. I suppose , to keep this short, I had decided that either those feelings were not all that important, or perhaps they would grow with time....neither were true sadly.
I dont want to go on and on. I guess all I want is to see if there is anyone else out there who can relate.
Thanks for your time