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May 16, 2011, 02:14 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I can understand forgiving a husband for cheating ONCE, but twice??? NO. He obviously does not respect his vows OR you, so I don't see that you have any choice. As for the children ~ would you rather they live in an unhappy household, or have them live happily with you? If the two of you stay together, there will be fight after fight -- children should NOT be subjected to that. If you leave, there will be peace in the home. They can still see their father if you arrange a decent visitation schedule, assuming you trust that he will bring them home. 
You should have a LEGAL visitation schedule set up, so that he knows what is expected of him. I wouldn't bother with a legal separation because I would imagine you're just going to end up divorcing anyway. Do you really think he's not going to date while you're separated??  He won't work on the marriage then, anymore than he's working on it now. He's a skunk.
Kick him to the curb, and wait for someone to come along that DESERVES you. Your kids deserve a decent father figure too! God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee 
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