My T has said she can't/won't rescue me.......it would be boundary crossing, becoming too emotionally involved, not good for her or me. It would end up not rescuing me, but putting me AND her into greater danger in the therapeutic relationship. She can help me find ways to rescue myself as it were, she can even show me the lifeline, the anchors, as it were, but I need to choose to take hold of what will help me. No one can choose it for me......