LMo! No violence!!!
I'm sorry that you are judging all Christians by this one group, yay, this one person. I'm sorry you feel Christians hate you.
I am a Christian, and the Christians I know don't hate people.. . they can hate what people do. To say there are no people IRL who have had that lifestyle and are happy to have changed it would be a disservice to their own beliefs. That doesn't mean that you have to, imo. Nor does it mean, to me, that you are less of a person than anyone else. Everyone gets God's love (whether they want it, feel they deserve it, or refuse it otherwise

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If your lifestyle is not an issue for you, then move on to those things that do bother you. I'm glad your T is helping. I hope you feel better soon, and that your former acquaintance can learn a fuller expression of real love.