I have been dating someone on and off for 4 yrs..I think something is going on between him and one of his family members..she lives with her parents and he lives practically in the backyard...neither married or have kids but she is in her late 30's and him almost 40...he never stays the night with me ..I hate feeling this way and I have no proof..when I asked him about it ,..woooo he got very very upset..they are very close and he says im jealous but I would call it insecure ...he tells me he loves me but even if its 2 am he will up and leave and go home ..do you think its just me ?should I worry? he gets very upset that I dont trust him but I dont feel he has given me reasons to trust him ...if he loved me then why am I here and he is there? thanks ..one more thing ...we are broke up right now and Im having a real hard time dealing with it . if someone could help me learn to get over him ...it would be greatly apprieciate...thanks again