It seams that I don't matter to myself at all when I am alone at home. I could care less about how the house looks like or myself. I am 7 month pregnant (for the first time) and my husband and I moved recently (september) from CT to Long Island. He has his work and collegues, but I don't have anyone here. Anyway, before he comes home I will make sure that the house is nice, that I look good for him and that I cook dinner for us. (If I would be alone, I would not even bother in making dinner...). But how can I change myself so that I know that I am important too to myself????? I have my dog, who tells me every day to talk her for a walk. She makes me get up the couch! I have several projects I can do during the day, but I can't find the energy to do any of it. It seams that I always need someone, I can show off to. Can anyone help me find MY energy???????