oh skittles. (((((hugs)))))))))))
its normal to want to take revenge on the ones who hurt us. i felt that way for so many years. its not easy to let it go, but you have to remind yourself of the love you have in your life now. i wish i could take some of my own advice. as for talking to t, as long as youre clear that you dont intend to act on your feeling, i dont see why you would be put in a hospital. thats what she (or he) is there for, to listen, to understand, to give support. we're here to do that for you too. big hugs honey.