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Old May 18, 2011, 01:38 PM
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I split with my husband 3 years ago and am now divorced. In trying to start a new life for myself I joined an on-line dating site. I have had a few on-line chats with men and have even met a couple for drinks but nothing more.

I have been chatting to someone recently who seems nice and has asked if I would like to meet up - however yesterday I discovered that he is training to be a therapist (NLP and regression) and this has freaked me out slightly. He doesn't know that I am seeing a therapist currently, or that I am having any difficulites in my life at all.

But I just don't know if it would be wise for me to meet him - would I be able to separate him from "the therapist" and would I be able to be objective in assessing whether I really liked him, or liked him as he is a therapist and the hurt part on me may latch on wanting to be saved.

Any advice??????
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