Thank-you Angel - yes honesty is a good thing isn't it? I have hidden my feelings for so long and pretended to people and I want to be different now. I want to be able to be open and get my needs met and that can't be done if I am not honest. However if I feel that I cannot be honest, then maybe I am not ready to have another relationship at the moment. Hmmm... shall think more on that one. Thanks again for reminding me of the "honesty" word.