I am so frustrated. I got a phone call when I was nearly finished with a response, and I ended up deleting the whole thing.

I will try to remember everything...

First... as to his family... His adoptive parents both passed away and they weren't much to brag about as parents. All I can really say, is that thanks to them my husband was not as bad off as he would have been with his birth mother and siblings....

Next... I planned to speak to my therapist this week and see if she feels it might be time to invite him to come with me to next weeks visit or one soon anyway... May wait a couple more weeks because his job is in a busy time right now, but looks like he will need to have gallbladder surgery soon, so maybe he could avoid missing work by coming during his recovery time.

Reg his work cell phone, I have mentioned that to him, but unfortunately or fortunately I guess for him, he works for a small family owned business and they really care less as long as he isn't doing anything that costs money...

My therapist and I believe that he is at a point in life that he really doesn't know who he is, so he can't share with me, something he doesn't yet understand... I GET THAT, BUT TO ME IT SEEMS LIKE IF YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND SOMETHING, WOULDN'T MOST PEOPLE WANT TO FIND SOMEONE WHO CAN HELP THEM UNDERSTAND????

He just seems so content to be unhappy and make me miserable.

I am considering printing all this off to let him read what I have shared and what other people are saying.....

WHAT ARE YOUR OPINIONS??

DO YOU GUYS THINK IT MIGHT BE HELPFUL OR CAUSE MORE HARM?

OR should I print and let my therapist read it 1st and see what she thinks?