wow, thanx 4 the replys, this is food 4 thought. open-i'm with you, cycles can be broken, "a magic pill", wow, thats good, very good-whos it 4, the child or the parent (brilliant), fantastic stuff open. Open, "i" do the things that make me human, i try to enjoy life and to have fun(be it going out with m8s, or being online). I'm so sorry that you are trapped (at the moment), in an abusive home-life, you willl be free one day, you will break the cycle of the torment you're going through, then you'll be free to help others like you and me( me like, a while ago). Open, you can be anything you want to be, a priest, a politic person, a philosopher, a pyschologist, a doctor, anything you want to be. Cycles of pain can be broken. I'm sorry if this thread upset you, but i see too much pain, all i want to do is heal; and for me to heal i must heal myself first. I belive i'm getting there, but with your help, i think i will. Thanx 4 the input. Loves..sanada..x p.s -i still belive that borders should come down, then peoples pain is exposed(if they want it to be), then the ones who want/need help can recive it...x