Recently ended a couple of different relationships.

The first, a friendship with a girl I've known since preschool. I'm taking this one really hard and I'm wondering how I should go about this. She said she wanted to patch things up, but I'm the only one who has put forth any effort. All of which has been deflected. Do I continue making an effort or do I let it go?

I would try one more time to see if you could have a lunch or coffee to see if you could just hang out. Sometimes with long term friends you don't have to actually talk about what happened in the past but just kind of get over it and move on.

The second, an emotionally conflicting romantic relationship. My feelings for him jumped majorly on a day to day basis because he was very indifferent with me on some days and very loving on others. I was very emotionally confused throughout the entirety of the relationship. And crushed when he decided to seek out affection from another girl. I felt guilty and ashamed because I took the initiative to "beg" him to take me back. A month later, I ended things. At first this left me feeling relieved and happy with myself for getting the courage up to finish things as I thought they should be. Now I'm back to feeling confused and wondering if I should try to reconcile at least a friendship with him. Or is that just utterly stupid?