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have been chatting to someone recently who seems nice and has asked if I would like to meet up - however yesterday I discovered that he is training to be a therapist (NLP and regression) and this has freaked me out slightly. He doesn't know that I am seeing a therapist currently, or that I am having any difficulites in my life at all.
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I believe in honesty, but do you need to tell him this on your first meeting?
Absolutely not.
Go meet him and get to know the guy first. See what he likes to do in his spare time and for fun. What's his favorite food and favorite color?
See if you like him and have any attraction before you start telling him all of your personal information.
that goes for all online dating - not just in this situation.
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But I just don't know if it would be wise for me to meet him - would I be able to separate him from "the therapist" and would I be able to be objective in assessing whether I really liked him, or liked him as he is a therapist and the hurt part on me may latch on wanting to be saved.
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He may see you more as a PATIENT, and since he's in training, you could be like a project for him...it goes both ways you know.