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Originally Posted by jadedmoonbeam
I believe in honesty, but do you need to tell him this on your first meeting?
Absolutely not.
Go meet him and get to know the guy first. See what he likes to do in his spare time and for fun. What's his favorite food and favorite color?
See if you like him and have any attraction before you start telling him all of your personal information.
that goes for all online dating - not just in this situation.
He may see you more as a PATIENT, and since he's in training, you could be like a project for him...it goes both ways you know.
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Thank-you for this - yes maybe it would be difficult for him as well. I don't want to be seeing someone who thinks I am vulnerable. I have a history of people taking advantage of me and I am beginning to think this just doesn't sound safe for me. He may be completely honourable, but I think I may struggle with the trust thing.